Another word for “counsel” is advice. A person is wise if they seek sound advice from people they trust, especially those individuals who are where they desire to be. Advisory boards are established to provide wise counsel, brainstorming, and feedback. Through this governance, many organizations as well as individuals have grown to be successful and productive.
I remember when I wanted to start running; I had no idea what to do. I reached out to a friend who lived in Virginia and was a running coach. I shared with her my desire to run, and she began to ask me questions. At first, I had no answers. Then she began to give me examples of what my responses could look like. From there, the wheels in my mind started to spin as I specified my goals, my why, and my personal outcome. More than just wanting to run, I could see the picture of what that would look like.
We started out with a plan to run three miles in thirty minutes. So, I was conquering distance and time. We also set a goal to accomplish this in twelve weeks. The plan started me out by walking on a timed schedule as I built up my speed to a running pace. Every day that was scheduled, I was faithful to follow the plan. Meeting smaller goals each time not only built my pace but also my confidence. I began to look beyond what was written on paper and began to set visible goals along my running path. I would challenge myself to go past a certain driveway or run out of the neighborhood or even to the gas station. Before I realized it, I had met the original goal of three miles in thirty minutes within seven weeks! For me, that was a miracle. This excitement led into thousands of miles run and marathons accomplished.
The wise counsel of someone who had achieved what I desired to do was beneficial. My coach not only accompanied me in planning the work, but she also accompanied me as I worked the plan. She even attended a race with me and coached me while I was on route. When I was exhausted and not thinking clearly, she was a voice of wisdom and encouragement reminding me of what was most important to me through this endeavor.
Today, I have taken on the role of coaching as I continue to be coached. You can only impart what you have learned through experience and accomplishment. Be a person who gives wise counsel. Speak through a heart of wisdom and learning. Your words carry weight, and your presence will be significant in the lives of those who are seeking the advice you have to offer. May your labors not be in vain. Stand firm. It’s a good time to be you!
Peace and Joy,
Coach Angela